Ah,I've been always very calm...
What I meant is that in life,you've got to Follow what your instinct says...If you feel like doing something...Don't hesitate(It's hard,and even I do)
Don't put me wrong...This doesen't implies tjat it's have to be that way or that way:If you feel like your life is about being a calm and riskless guy,it's your choice and follow it if that makes you happy...
Like an old song was called..
Sigue tu camino(Follow your trail).